Dating can be a lot of fun, but it is not always easy. Keep these tips in mind to make dating less stressful.

Some of the following tips apply to first dates while others apply to dating during a relationship. Either way, these tips will help you make the most of your dating experiences:

1. Listen to your parents. May be you’ll think Mom and Dad are "old school" but that's just because they have been around a little longer than you have. They even dated a time or two before they married each other. You might be surprised to listen them.

2. Your parents have to know, whom u r dating, whose the guy. If you want your parents to trust you and to like the guy you are dating, the best thing you can do is make sure they are comfortable with you going out with him. Inform your parents where you are going, when you will be back, how you are getting there, and whom you are going with. If your date comes to the door to pick you up then at least say hello to your parents.

3. Make sure you and your date are not giving or receiving mixed signals. Do you think you are going out as just friends? Does he? Is this a "real" date? Both should know what other one has in his mind. If it's just a friend’s thing, you should offer to pay your own way.

4. Don't accept gifts on a first date or from a guy you are not really interested in. Doing so sends the wrong signals, and may very well lead the guy on. Unless you are truly interested in having a relationship, politely decline and thank him for the nice gesture.

5. If you do not know your date well, besides single date go in group date. It's not a great idea to be completely alone with someone you barely know. For one thing, you will be more nervous. Otherwise it can be dangerous. If you cannot arrange a double date or a group date, agree to meet the guy in a busy, public. Prefer your friends or parent will drop u & pick u. Do not arrive or leave alone.

6. Never agree to something that makes you uncomfortable. This includes everything from going to a gory movie you don't want to see, to giving in to a guy's advances. You are in control of your actions and your body. Be honest about how you feel. If he does not respond in an understanding way, he cares more about himself than he does about you, and it's better for you to find out now. . He can't read your mind. Just be yourself, let him be himself, and enjoy the date for what it is.

7. No date is perfect. If you start out with extremely high expectations, you may end up disappointed. Try to relax. Just let the evening flow and see what happens. Don't expect him to say or do just the right things according to some romantic script you and your friends developed.

8. Try to get along with his friends. One thing that can destroy a relationship quickly is making someone choose between you and his friends. In most cases, he's been with his friends longer and it won't work out well for you. If he really likes you, he'll try to balance both relationships. If he does give it up for you; he will be unhappy and will eventually resent you.

9. Never try to make someone give up interests or dreams for you. Ultimatums are a bad idea; they're also unfair. If he has been playing football since he was old enough to walk, he is not likely to give it up just because you say so. If so, you need to try to be accommodating.

10. Call Mom or Dad if necessary.& as u think u “grown up” u can handle the situation, but some situations can get out of control. If your date has been drinking, if he becomes aggressive or violent, or if you are uncomfortable in any way, call someone to get u.