Relationships: Puzzles?

My relationship is equal parts pain and pleasure. Better something far from perfect than the void of isolation. It seems to me that I can't create real bond with men.

I can't get men, some people are just meant to be unlucky, if it's going to happen it will happen. I went without companionship and it's sad completely to be so alone.

“ Puzzles and Answers ”

What do men want in a relationship - - importance of personality traits

You're trying to meet someone who lights your fire too. If you set a goal and attain it not only will you impress men more often, but you might even amaze yourself, and raise that self esteem - confidence level.

Don't mold and mend your body or personality for men or anyone else EVER. Do not think about wanting to be more social but make it happen today.

Meet someone who lights your fire

Do it only for yourself. You would much rather be happy with yourself and alone than unhappy with who you are. It's easier to act your way into thinking right than to think your way into acting.

Perhaps you could find some new hobbies to fill your time on top of your schedule, and to make things happen in other areas of life.

Tips to success in socializing with men

Bottom line: In theory there isn't really anything wrong with your lifestyle if you are happy with what you are doing and are not hurting anyone else.

However taking into consideration that we are social beings I think that you are missing out on a whole lot of good things by not interacting with others outside of your family. For more tips about socializing with men, refer to e-books in series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :

Get an inside look at what you will learn:

• What do men want in a relationship - importance of personality traits!
• Where to meet someone who lights your fire?
• Tips to success in socializing with men.