Relationships: Puzzles?

I'm getting mixed signals from a man I started to develop feelings for. He is attractive, honest and usually flirty but sometimes at random he'll cool off towards me.

He acts attracted to me, yet when I send him the same attraction back he behaves like it's unprovoked.

“ Puzzles and Answers ”

Some guys do flirting for fun

From what you described it appears very much like he was flirting for fun because he recognized you liked him. We like people who like us! And we flirt accordingly.

Take that from a men's perspective. He is probably being cautious now the flirting has moved to flirting with intent.

Opinions on romantic partners are amazingly varied

He may have made his mind up that he isn't interested but he may be considering if he does like you and playing it cool in the mean time.

Attraction comes out of the blue at times and a man may be confused. My advice is to distance yourself a bit. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. He may miss your attention.

A man is going to sense your relaxed behavior

Bottom line: A guy could interpret your friendliness as flirtatious move. Who doesn't like to feel loved? You might play along with it as long as it remain just there.

From a man's perspective if the woman is pushing a little further when all you wanted from it is just fun, he would back off. Most likely the guy did it.

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