Relationships: Puzzles?

There is a man at work, who I have known for three months now. We just really started talking. Then I got around mentioning that there was a concert this month that I wanted to go.

I asked him if he would like to go to a rock concert with me. I am very attracted to him, but I don't know how to go further with it into relationship.

“ Puzzles and Answers ”

Common activities done together would get the conversation going again

I am assuming that you like this guy at work. If this is the case then it sounds like a really good offer. If you like the band then you should definitely take him up on that offer.

It might be the case that you want to start doing a common activity, like going for a concert that will start the conversation going again. Think of activities that both of you can do together and then talk about it afterwards.

Nothing is stopping you but fear of rejection

It sounds like a win - win situation for you. To go with a man that you fancy and to see a band that you like.

If you believe that this guy that you like, is of good character, then there is nothing really stopping you but fear itself.

Take the opportunities to go out with a guy you are attracted to

Bottom line: Fight the fear of rejection, as you have nothing really to loose and everything to gain. Just go for it!

If you don't happen to like him or you are unsure about the offer, then it's quite easy to say, no thanks! There will be other opportunities for you to go out if you want to adjourn him out first.

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