Relationships: Puzzles?

I'm having a really hard time finding someone and I'm just completely confused. I'm a nice guy, I'm friendly and I care about people and what not, do girls not want a nice guy?

Any girl that I'm interested in seems to not be interested in me. I like who I am, I really don't want to change myself but if I can't find someone?

“ Puzzles and Answers ”

Your happiness should come first

The most important thing that you need to know is that your happiness should come first. You shouldn't have to change for anybody, no matter how interested you are in them, if they can't appreciate the kind of person you are, forget them, they're not worth it.

What you have to ask yourself is: Can I be happy with this person?

Will they make me happy?

Do they appreciate me for who I am?

And if the answer for any of these questions is no, then it's best not to start a relationship, because if you do, then in the end both of you will get hurt.

Widen your social circle and you'll meet the right person

It may seem helpless right now, but when you least expect it, life will reward you. Perhaps it might just be the crowd you mixed with? Try to widen your social circle and eventually you'll meet the right woman. Don't ever try to change yourself for anyone.

You must feel good about yourself. If you feel like doing something, ask yourself whether you are doing it for someone else or for yourself. Do you feel comfortable being who you are right now?

Feel comfortable and relaxed being yourself

If you feel comfortable with these aspects, then you should stick with it. You must feel comfortable and relaxed being yourself.

This will allow others to feel comfortable around you and get to know you for who you are. What if some woman starts to like you when you're pretending to be something else, you'd end up going back to yourself.

Can't seem to find the right woman

Bottom line: For the situation where you can't seem to find the right woman or the ones who do like you aren't interested in, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just don't go out looking for love. It'll come to you. Other hints: well you'll discover yourself as the story continues in e-books.

One day it'll hit you, and out of the blue you won't even know what happened. Therefore, be yourself! For more tips about finding the right woman, refer to e-books in series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :

Get an inside look at what you will learn:

• Your happiness should come first
• Widen your social circle and you'll meet the right person.
• Guidelines to feel comfortable and relaxed being yourself